Meet Jody Cates

You’ve reached a moment to celebrate. You’ve raised your family, built lasting relationships, and kept your body, mind and soul healthy while doing work you love.

You hope your experience and wisdom will serve you well in the future.

But you’ve got more questions than answers about what comes next.

That’s where I can help.

Jody Cates, Coach for Midlife Women
Jody Cates, Coach for Midlife Women

When midlife turned my world upside down, I watched as everything that defined me – marriage, motherhood, my career – shifted into unfamiliar territory. I felt lost and overwhelmed.

I found a path forward by listening to wise counsel and studying those who went before me.

I gave God full access to my life and made changes that helped me find peace and joy in midlife.

My 16+ years of working in pastoral care and counseling, along with my coach training and certification, equips me to be your guide.

But it’s my personal experience with the challenges of midlife that fuels my passion to help women find their way through the messy middle to a second-half life they love.

It’s your turn to thrive. 

I created Blooming in the Middle to help women like you dream into a new future, age with confidence and grow satisfying relationships with your adult kids, parents and partner.

Professional Background & Education

When not working with clients, Jody enjoys spending time with her family and hiking the bluffs overlooking San Diego’s beautiful beaches. She’s a lover of fresh air and sunshine, good books, strong coffee, deep conversations, and seeing God’s plan unfold in the everyday moments of life.